- What is personality transformation?
- First you need to understand what a personality is, then it will become clear what its transformation is. Personality is a set of roles and patterns of behavior that are activated at a certain moment for successful survival. A person always wants to survive, but to do this, she needs to understand what behavior is appropriate at the moment, and what behavior will force other individuals to bring her to the brink of death.

- TIs there a personality that has a main goal - survival, and for this it includes certain roles?
- Yes. For example, a girl's personality understands that her mother is angry with her and turns on the role of "Good Girl" or "Pleaser" to appease her mother. When the mother calms down, the personality can turn on the “Mischievous” role until the mother turns on the “Controller” role again. If the mother, in response to her daughter’s pranks, on the contrary, turns on tenderness and support in the form of the “Allowing” role, then the daughter’s personality will activate the “Mischievous” and even “Capricious” role, testing the boundaries allowed by the mother.
It turns out that the roles of some individuals shape the roles of other individuals, determining their growth and ability to achieve goals.

- If a personality is a set of roles, then how many roles can one personality play?
- Each person has thousands of roles, but approximately no more than 30 have been mastered, and often even less. For example, every woman knows well how to include the roles at any moment: Daughter, Mommy, Citizen, Gossip, Capricious, Greedy, Weak, Self-pitying, Lover, Mistress, Jealous, Critical, Controller, Rescuer, Pleaser, Fool, Windy, Protector, Victim, Cold (Insensitive or Detached), Boorish (Insolent), Gray Mouse, Touchy, Bitch, I-can-do-anything.

- There are 25 roles. Is this enough for a person to survive?
- To survive, of course, yes, but to be successful and prosperous - no. Personal transformation is exactly what every person needs in order to move from survival to real success.

- So what is personality transformation?
- Personality transformation is an expansion of behavior patterns, an increase in the number of mastered roles, mastery of which helps not only to survive successfully, but inspires others to make life better and more interesting.

- Can you give examples of personality transformation?
Yes. For example, a woman wanted attention and gifts from a man, but included only 2 roles for this: “Critical” (she nagged and nagged her man for insensitivity and greed) and “Jealous” (she believed that he most likely gives gifts to another woman, since it brings her nothing). Realizing that her strategy was not bearing fruit, she transformed her personality and mastered 5 more roles:
- “Tender” - she knows how to be affectionate when he returns without gifts, so that he wants to be close to her.
- “Selfish” - she devotes more time to herself when he wants her to be close to him.
- “Muse” - she knows how to inspire him to ideas and projects that are interesting to him.
- “Shameless” - she pays attention to other men in his presence, making him jealous.
- “Self-sufficient” - she no longer asks for gifts or flowers, enjoying her life, her emotions and her time.

- And what did this transformation lead to?
- What do you think? Everything that enjoys and at the same time eludes a man is doomed to become his desired prey, for which he will not spare the most expensive baits, traps and ambushes. Not to mention the flowers!

It’s a paradox: companies spend millions on training to develop creativity among employees, but if in ordinary life a person demonstrates imaginative abilities, he ends up on the list of representatives “not of this world.” Life requires us to make original decisions, and society requires us to behave within established forms.

But even if you discover new facets in yourself:

• novelty of perception
• unconventional thinking
• hypersensitivity
• wealth of imagination

then you encounter an internal barrier - APPERCEPTION.

Those. an ordinary person is captive of previous experience, lives in the PRESENT MOMENT under a dictate:

• past experience,
• stock of knowledge,
• general content of spiritual life,
• current mental state.

For example, if you and I start a conversation on a chosen topic, then you will issue conclusions, based on past experiences, taking into account your education, development and mood.

Can you imagine HOW our conversation will change if in one case you are upset, and in the other you are filled with joy?.. :)

What if you are talking about the same thing with a person without education in this field or with someone who defended his doctorate on the issue under discussion? Let’s add personal experience (negative or positive), and it will definitely “color” the conversation in tones that correspond to the experience.

Let’s add here the level of development - and it’s immediately clear that any opinion is objective only within the limits of the subjectivity of the person expressing it.

And if you don’t like the outcome of the conversation, look for another interlocutor. I guarantee that your eyes may be “opened” and “there will be light at the end of the tunnel.”

The greater the life experience of a person and his embrace of feelings, the more he is less able to see new things, interprets everything more as known, known, i.e. proceeds according to the laws of apperception.

Moreover, in the events and phenomena of the surrounding world he sees only familiar ones, familiar edges. This tendency is largely delays development, takes us back to the past, makes it difficult to see new opportunities and prospects.

What THREATENS a person who “stuck” in a crisis of stability?

The force of evolution (or the force of chaos, the force of change) comes and sweeps away outdated concepts - through the emerging social situation. How? Either the intensity of life increases and a person is forced to “row faster,” or life hits the weak points of the personality, and she has to “change.”

EVENTUALLY: the old structure is breaking down, a person experiences psychophysiological and emotional stress.

And the tougher the structure, the stronger and more painful it is for a person to experience the “ontological will of being.”

If a person copes on his own (using existing resources and skills), then he gradually returns to a stable, but qualitatively new condition.

For example: once upon a time there lived a skeptic, brought up in the spirit of “fatalism with an admixture of selfish attitude towards people.” And then one day I got into an accident. And miraculously he survived. And at the moment of this miracle he saw... SOMETHING. And this SOMETHING had a heart-to-heart talk with him (and he least of all believed in the existence of the soul). And the conversation was so seriously tangible and radically changing everything, incl. the worldview of a skeptic that after the accident a person became a deeply religious person.

Friends? They won’t understand, and they’ll even giggle after you. Colleagues? They will twist it at the temple, especially if they are infected with skepticism. Family? And who knows... They might even turn them into a “fool” if they are frightened by the “devout visions” of a family member who has just been introduced to God.

But if a person stable in its roots, based on reality(so as not to glitch and remain adequate), then sooner or later family, friends, and colleagues will understand that changes in worldview are real . And they lead to changes in attitudes and behavior.

OTHERWISE - need help from specialists(psychologists, priests, mentors).

When exacerbation of a personal problem prevents a person from working and communicating with others, this condition is called "neurosis".

ATTENTION! Do not confuse an elevated state after an insight experience, an influx of energy and sublime motives with neurosis. The state of INSIGHT helps: opens new horizons, fills the heart with joy, inspires, makes a person sensitive and responsive.

Neurosis is disorientation, irritation, loss. It can develop into a more severe form of mental illness called “psychosis,” which refers to various types of mental illness.

As Adler wrote, “small difficulties are the norm, major difficulties are neurosis.” To clarify, the norm is when a person can cope with emotional conflicts, and if he cannot, then this is neurosis.

IMPORTANT! Human able to adjust internal stresses.

This is a dynamic, creative process that constantly occurs in each of us. Personality is never static. She is mobile, she is constantly changing. (this is a time of personality transformation)

Therefore, it is not worth talking about intrapersonal “equilibrium” or “balance”, since this implies that personal tensions can be adjusted once and for all, i.e. make the personality static. And in the kingdom of the psyche to become static means to die.

If we resort to a metaphor, then LIVING does not mean tuning yourself, like a receiver, to one wave and let it work, but constantly catching a changing wave, i.e. new experiences every day, a wave coming to us from an endlessly creative life, always new and varied.

POSSIBILITY of correction of personal tensions – greatest gift nature to humanity, synonymous with CREATIVITY.

The more gifted a person is, the easier and faster the correction occurs in him, he is more susceptible and feels suffering more deeply, but his potential is much richer.

The ability to be creative is like an unconscious drive. Bergson called it the "vital impulse", Nietzsche - the "will to power", Schopenhauer - the "creative will". It is the most important condition for:

• successful self-expression,
• comprehensive self-realization
• personal adaptation in the modern world.

That is why in the correction of neurotic conditions, i.e. those accompanied by emotional overload, creativity is used: drawing, modeling, needlework (patchwork), wood carving (more of a masculine activity). This also includes dance, poetry, music.

All this helps us express our seething emotions and live them in full, painlessly and with benefit to the soul. A skeptic who has met God runs to the pharmacy for a sedative. The mystic begins to write (embroider, carve) icons.

So if a wave of change has come into your life, surrender to its will consciously, blessing this time as TIME TO DEVELOP!

And create while experiencing in movement, music, words emotional flow: dance your anger or melancholy, hum your sadness or loneliness, write a diary. Create with your hands: draw, sculpt, craft - from everything that comes to hand. That's what it is - realization of inner life through external forms.

The most original things were created at the peak of the crisis, by those who:

• drew from fear - courage,
• from aggression - strength,
• and from confusion and misunderstanding - the novelty of perception of the world.

Don't know how it is? Come to "SPIRAL OF DEVELOPMENT" !

By the way, the concepts “creative” and “creative” are often equated...
Is this acceptable?
And what is the difference, if any? Read about it in part 3 of this article.

Symptoms of transformation. Deliverance. I transferred this section to the book from my manual on cosmoenergetics. I think that such information will be useful not only to my students, but also to the ordinary reader. Transformation can occur not only in the Initiate, but also in many people on Earth, embodied in a given period of time, even if they do not suspect it, accepting many symptoms as illnesses. The word transformation is translated as “ exit beyond the past and the acquisition of a new form of body, Spirit and mind." During transformation, many things get rid of low-frequency elements (entities) which are popularly simply called devils or larvae . At their core, devils at a low level of consciousness appear to be “teachers” for a negative person. It’s not for nothing that they say: “Until thunder strikes, a man will not cross himself.” So there are similar programs in space that push the careless and lazy towards certain actions for change, so that they can finally “cross themselves.” Entities are intended specifically for passing through and working out the negative Karma of individuals. If a person begins to dream of a highly organized Spiritual Teacher (in common parlance he calls on Guardian angels for help), then the process of increasing the energy level of this person is activated, that is, transformation. Naturally, with a high-frequency shift in the aura, low-frequency entities disappear, because I can no longer exist in symbiosis with a person. They fall off like diseased warts from the body. Now think about it. If warts or sores fall off painfully, then the falling away of any energetic dirt from the subtle bodies will also be painful in any case. The entities, although low-frequency, are to some extent intelligent. They will not give up their breeding ground - humans - without a fight. . Never!!! The channels of cosmoenergetics are simply irreplaceable in such a process. After all, many people die without outside help, without having time to understand anything. They don't know that help exists. Or they don’t believe it, but that’s their choice. The persistent go and look for a source of deliverance. I will list the main symptoms, diseases associated with them during transformation, as well as the reasons why diseases arise. 1. Loss of energy and insomnia - this means that the body receives signals from the liver and small intestine about the improper expenditure of energy and vitality on negative emotions and vanity. You should conduct an independent analysis of your own behavior in unfavorable situations for you. In this case, the channels help the influx of vitality, but your own change in attitude towards life is necessary; this will speed up the process much more. 2. Fainting conditions - they talk about the presence of blocks in the energy system through which the pure energy of space cannot pass at all. The entire system is very heavily loaded with entities. They simply swarm in the subtle bodies of a person and take away a huge amount of vital juices for nutrition. In the presence of entities , fainting may also occur during sessions. This suggests that there has been a mass departure of such entities. 3. Unmotivated rise in temperature - transformation by fire. Before this fact, a chill may occur first, and then the body begins to fight and a rise in temperature appears. Heavenly fire feels like freezing cold. Physical fire burns. A person experiences heat in the internal organs, burning in the hands, burning and pain in the legs, heat in the head and mouth. In such conditions, the negative Karma of the family tree of a person undergoing transformation is burned out. Children can easily tolerate temperatures of 38 degrees. , so they should not be fed antibiotics. Antibiotics during transformation cause intoxication of the body, disrupt kidney function, cause dysbacteriosis and drug allergies. 4 . Violence, rage, intense frequent anger - bring a person to a heart attack or stroke . The reason is the strong thickening of these negative emotions (like tar). WITH features the riots become denser and poison the blood, creating the basis for problems in the body. When cleansing, a cadaverous odor emanates from the patient. I would encourage clients, as well as students, to review these symptoms often. They come to me, smile, sting, well, they just act like “sheep of God”, offended at everyone, and I feel an unbearable corpse smell from them, even my lungs begin to burn. Eyes and ears can be deceived, but feelings cannot be deceived. 5. Jealousy, especially groundless - promotes the formation of stones or sand in the genitourinary system. If a person tells you, even swears that he is not jealous, but has similar problems himself, do not believe him. Believe yourself. He may not be aware of his vice. From the point of view jealousy is very dangerous. If the problem is nurtured for many years without changing the state of affairs, then the pathology is inherited and in children can express itself in very strong aggressiveness towards the object of jealousy, even to the point of murder. 6. Stomach ulcer - called essence irritation. Unrequited behavior is when a person is afraid to respond to an insult, to speak out, and accumulates irritation within himself. An incorrect reaction to a certain conflict, long-term tension, for example, fear of an exam among students, unreasonable touchiness, fear of saying no - lead to the formation of ulcers or stomach diseases. During cleansing and transformation, symptoms of exacerbation of the disease may occur. This indicates that your body has begun to fight the problem. You should show courage in the struggle, fully realizing that you have attracted all this to yourself. Get rid of it yourself. When cleansing, a putrid odor may emanate from the mouth. Example: One woman who practices cosmoenergetics and calls herself a healer constantly has a foul odor coming from her mouth when talking. But you feel it very clearly when this woman starts to get angry. I used to have close contact with her at the seminars of my former Teacher. I somehow couldn’t stand it and reprimanded her. She asked why she hasn’t solved her problem for many years, because people look at her and feel her stench. To which she replied (making naive eyes) - “Well, what can you do now?!” It's OK. They themselves stink.” 7. Thyroid disorder - clearly expressed in people who are cowardly, humiliated, flawed, and disadvantaged. They usually do not know how to defend their opinions and personal interests. Women, as well as men, usually repeat “I’m so small, nothing depends on me,” “I’m just a cog.” During recovery, pronounced self-pity, tearfulness, or, conversely, anger begins, even towards the healer. Out of habit, a person tries to project his shortcomings onto another, so as not to look inside himself, and not to be afraid of himself. It's easier that way. The glands of the throat swell, a sore throat appears, and the voice deepens. The body is burning out the entities that fed on humiliation and placed this person in a “scapegoat” situation. A person in the process may emit foul, sour odors of various spectrums. 8. Rapid aging, sudden baldness - is caused by a huge workload of entities at all levels of consciousness, in all chakras. When disposed of, the human body naturally becomes younger and recovers. The use of creams, perfumes, shampoos, as well as bathing in herbs and charged salt, scares away low-frequency entities. These drugs seem to create a “mirror” shell on the aura and entities cannot stick to its surface with their cords. 9. Headaches, migraines, dizziness - arise when there is stagnation of energy in the etheric body. Not forgiving your family and friends especially affects your head. You should not relieve pain with pills, but think about relationships, try to learn to forgive. The pills drive the problem deep into the subconscious, turning the symptoms into a chronicle, which will subsequently spread to other organs. If the back of your head hurts - this speaks of the accumulation of dirty, black thoughts. The back of the head on the subtle planes is the place of memory of all past lives, the entire family tree. You may get sick when in contact with a stranger, but this indicates that you and this individual have a karmic unresolved problem of personal relationships that stems from past incarnations and should be resolved in order to move on. Notice when you got sick, under what circumstances, what you said at that moment, what emotions surfaced - here is the answer. If the top of your head hurts - this indicates that your connection with the Sun, with the Higher Mind, with the Guardian Angel is broken. Some words or actions may cause a slight pain, like an injection with a tingling sensation. Consider yourself warned. A joke, but a fact. Pain like a needle prick may occur in cases where there is an attack by someone’s essence in contact with this person. It is also monitored through the analysis of actions and thoughts at this moment. A vampiric connection may occur. Try to break off contact if possible. When undergoing therapy with cosmoenergetics channels, it may also hurt, but this indicates cleansing and restoration of protection. Parietal part - contacts the pancreas. During purification, your past incarnations are worked out according to the 13 signs of the Zodiac. If anyone doesn’t know, let me clarify. The thirteenth sign of the Zodiac is Ophiuchus. This sign includes only a person who has begun his spiritual ascent. If your temples hurt - there is a response to relationships with people with whom you are connected in this life, right now. If someone constantly annoys you. You need to resolve the situation, talk it out, change the position of the relationship, and not just push the problem deeper with pills. Whiskey can ache or burn with a “difficult-to-digest” task. In case of mental overstrain, at work, during an exam, where there is a fear of failure to complete a task, etc. Take a second for yourself, take a deep breath three times, as if detaching yourself, disconnecting from the task for a moment. Pronunciation in your head, stretching out the letter M, helps you quickly switch off. Of course, you can take a pill if necessary, but subject to subsequent analysis. For example, my head hurts just thinking about work. Think about it. Do you love your job? You spend most of your life on it. Or the problem is with some employee with whom you are forced to contact all day. Or the boss. Until you decide something specific for yourself, the situation will only get worse. Are you going to live a short life? Do you want to put your life on someone else’s “altar”. Sometimes it is enough to change your own attitude, personal opinion on what is happening (for example, turn attacks into jokes) and everything changes. Changing yourself is always easier in principle, but more difficult because of your own EGO and stubbornness. 10. Pain - in the area of ​​the spleen, liver, intestines , nausea, especially during a session - they speak of being loaded with entities of fear and anger. This kind of fear arises in people who do not want to accept anything new, new energies into the body, those energies that in any case now come from the Cosmos, whether you want it or not. Such a reaction of rejection indicates a load of entities (choose options, horseradish is not sweeter than radish) - black magic, jealousy, stress, violence (to you or from you), humiliation, aggression, fears, scares, underestimation of your abilities. Unfortunately, children get similar problems when the “grandmother” casts wax, but does not know how to complete the job properly. Fear goes deep into the subconscious and subsequently (with age) can manifest itself into anything - psychosis, neuroticism, chronic enuresis, deterioration of character, arrogance, etc. In our time and given our capabilities, it is simply necessary to patiently cleanse ourselves of negative energies using spiritual methods; this is already a matter of survival. We are responsible for our generation and for our descendants. 11. Watery eyes, sweating, hay fever, bronchitis , skin rashes - they talk about the enormous suffering of the human family tree. Symptoms are a spontaneous cleansing of the body from this energetic dirt. During sessions, similar reactions occur for the same reason. 12. During spiritual energetic transformation the following may occur symptoms - A) Feeling dissatisfied - this speaks of the replanting of the essence at the 4th chakra level. The fourth chakra is the center of higher creative development. If you don't cultivate, then your teacher will be a black entity. I call them Antiworld psychologists. These programs are much stronger and smarter than simple ones entities . Their vibration level is even harsher. They can expel small entities from a person (as if to cure them) and take possession of him. The person looks quite healthy physically, but mentally becomes a “monster”. It will be like this until heprofitable similar entity as a slave, a breeding ground. Through sacrifice, Antiworld psychologists influence the destinies of other people, their psyches, through their own vices. Example - Kashpirovsky, Beria, Hitler, many scientists, magician Longo, Stepanova (from Novosibirsk), etc. You should be firm despite your depressed state, continue to attend sessions, and stand under the canals yourself. You will show them who is boss, and you will certainly get rid of such connections. Naturally, after deliverance you will acquire a Bright Teacher (in common parlance they say - to bring an Angel closer). B) Feelings of melancholy, doom, hopelessness - speaks of the weakness of the Soul in difficult circumstances and loading with many negative entities on several chakras. A set of negative energies of this kind provides gluttony, perverted sexual desires, strong foul language, masochism, and sadism. When getting rid, rethink your life, ask the question - “Who are we feeding...?” On TV they are trying to convey ideas through the mass consciousness that perversions and sadomasochism are just games of adults. Think about it! Who inspires, who shows? For what? With whose tacit consent? When restoring the first chakra, there may be the same sensations, but they are fleeting during the therapy process. IN) Violence, anger, emotional breakdowns that a person cannot contain, that doesn't recognize himself - this is a specific obsession. Entities put a person into amnesia and sclerosis. The victim does not have enough energy potential to fight. He does not understand the problem of good and evil in principle. He doesn't belong to himself. When getting rid of such a pathology using channels, not only the patient, but also the healer should show great perseverance and patience. Who do you think the settlers will attack? Of course, to a healer who can help by provoking the patient into a rude attitude and anger. Example: I have had incidents of this kind with clients more than once. Here's one of them. The patient underwent long-term therapy to get rid of problems - asthma, poor relationships with family, migraine pain, mental breakdowns, sore legs. After the course of treatment, she wrote me a review, very positive. I was especially happy that my asthma disappeared. She also wrote about what a sensitive and responsive person I am. But literally a week after writing the review, I accidentally found out that she was calling my clients whom she met in the office and “making fun of me for nothing.” I turned out to be insensitive, unscrupulous, black... Which is what I still do. She urgently wanted to become a healer, because this is a good supplement to her pension. A metamorphosis occurred because I suggested that she continue therapy and told her the truth about herself. She explained that those who are mentally strong and healthy should engage in healing, otherwise her asthma will return. The result was a reaction - a projection of my own shortcomings onto me. A person should at least try to analyze the situation, see the weakness and limitations of his own consciousness, reconsider his angry behavior and attitude towards certain people. G ) constant feeling guilt, false conscience, an eternal desire for repentance, forms of masochism - testify to a dirty Soul. The problem may stem from past incarnations. The same pathology includes attitudes, vows made to God in a past life, or vows of renunciation. To eliminate, look for the cause of the causes. Constant psychoanalysis helps. It is necessary to consider emerging situations from all sides, to ask the question, “Do you need this?” Why do you constantly provoke such situations when you have to humiliate yourself, perhaps even unconsciously. The motto - “sin and repent” was invented by priests in the distant past for more lung control of masses of believers, various levels of consciousness. Such an approach to faith does not contribute to the purification and evolution of the Soul. It may happen that in a past life a person tortured others and his Soul decided to work off negative Karma in the image of a victim. But. If you have reached a period of time when the pathology has become obvious to you and opportunities for help have appeared, then it’s time to reconsider the situation. This means Karma has exhausted itself. It's your choice to show the willpower to change or continue to be a victim. D) During transformation, in some cases a feeling of duality may appear. This is the struggle of two “I”s within you. You need to learn to accept yourself as you are, with all your vices, shortcomings and virtues. Cultivate virtues in yourself (gradually). Declare to yourself - “Yes, I am imperfect, but I will strive to become better and forgive myself for the mistakes I have made before. I will learn to forgive others, because they are also imperfect. But I won’t let anyone offend me. I’m not a sheep in someone else’s flock, I have my own Path!!”

Any project to change a company is, first of all, a transformation of the top manager’s personality. The company is changing from a leader, and how effective the corporate reform process will be depends on the first person. With what attitude and what expectations we begin to move mountains, the result is determined no less than by the prescribed plan and system KPI.
I can say that to this day I have not completely conquered myself, but I have ruled out struggle as the only way to work with the world. I’ll be honest: it has become easier for me to live with myself and with others. It’s like throwing away the many-year-old illusion that your Bolshevik desire to go to the end at any cost will make the world a better place. There are many more options for life strategies, and accepting this means giving yourself the opportunity to calm down, not wasting energy looking for enemies, but seeking harmony with yourself and the world.

Success is not just a struggle

I grew up in a highly competitive environment. We were raised in the ideology of a hostile environment, the philosophy of struggle permeated all spheres of life: the struggle against strangers, the struggle for the harvest, the struggle for peace, the struggle, in the end, with oneself in order to be the best and worthy. Part of this philosophy is that you must achieve your goals through blood, sweat and tears; You can gain something only by losing something of equal value; and a mandatory requirement is to defeat everyone around you.

When my son Nikita was very little, he once pointed to a beautiful car on the street. Having heard from me that the car was expensive, Nikita offered to win it in the lottery. I then began to explain to him that no, it won’t work out that way, to get this car, you have to work long and hard. Then my wife asked why I don’t even consider the possibility of getting something easily and with pleasure, why I don’t believe myself and deny others the opportunity to believe in luck.

Living in constant competition means, as our professor Moti Crystal jokes, constantly holding a hammer in your hands, then everything around you automatically turns into nails. My personal challenge is to learn how to use different tools.

Personality transformation: Follow your priorities

We constantly owe something to someone. When there are too many obligations, you sometimes catch yourself thinking that you are not the hero of your own life, but a victim of the schedule and promises to employers, colleagues, parents, children and friends. This is probably the main conclusion that I have made over the past year: even in the face of constant demands and “environmental disturbances,” you are able to influence your choice. You are not at all a victim of circumstances, you are not controlled by external events and the mood of other people. It's a matter of focusing more on your own goals.

Personal transformation began with the fact that I began to refuse more often, say “no”, leave, not participate, explain why I cannot join various initiatives and support someone’s projects. This attitude does not go unnoticed. Some acquaintances consider this snobbery, some are offended and do not accept my explanations, but I’ll be honest: by denying others the fulfillment of all their desires, I have not lost anyone really near and dear.

We were taught that being selfish is very bad, but I cannot call internal focus selfishness. If you set high goals for yourself, if you want to change the world around you, if you are consistent in achieving these goals, then it takes a lot of time and effort to choose the main thing. All these many “nos” allow you to focus on the really important “yes” that otherwise would not happen.

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Sport as a source of energy for movement

We all live until a certain age in the happy delusion that our health will last forever, that we can treat ourselves quite uncaringly - work until exhaustion, smoke, drink alcohol and overcome weakness the next morning. Yes, this is a certain courage, exactly until you understand that such an attitude towards your body contradicts all your other goals. I am close to the theory that a person is fully developed if there is a unity of the physical, mental and emotional. Only such a mix gives strength and desire to move forward. Sport for me is a source of physical and mental energy.

Last year I started running marathons myself - for me running has become the very sport that allows me to withstand long loads. It began as a desire to understand why so many of our graduates are involved in this sport almost professionally, and was the result of a fashion fad, but unexpectedly for me it led to the fact that at the end of November I ran my first full marathon in Valencia. The marathon is good for efficiency. Not in the sense that I think about work while running, but quite the opposite - I don’t do that at all. This is a meditation that makes your brain shut up and be here and now.

For me, a marathon is also a story about strategy; it teaches you how to distribute your reserve of strength over 42 km, how to motivate yourself to reach the final when it’s hard for you and you forget why you got involved in this story in the first place. And yes, running is not the only way to get energy - but any way to listen to your body will be a victory.
Not long ago I came across a new decoding of the abbreviation CEO - Chief Energy Officer. And there is a lot of truth in this: if you have energy, then it will be enough for the whole company. And it is important that this energy is constructive and positive. ⓂⒷ

Dr. House used to say that people don't change. Do you think a radical transformation of personality is possible?

Beginner level

Our life is a series of choices that determine our destiny. But how can we understand where our next choice leads - does it bring us closer to our dreams or lead us into another dead end in life? How to understand yourself and reconcile your inner motives with your spiritual essence? Modern humanity is at the so-called preparatory, near-human stage of development and is only approaching its truly Human direction.

Outwardly, people look human, but inside, everyone, driven by their inner aspirations, gains individual experience of interaction with other non-human directions. The article will help you look at all the many internal and external contradictions from the point of view of a cosmic explorer of the universe and begin to consciously choose your path in a truly Human direction.

Introduction

Our life is a series of choices that determine our destiny. But how can we understand where the next choice leads us - whether it brings us closer to our dreams or takes us to another dead end in life, where a feeling of hopelessness, disappointment, loneliness and depression awaits us. At such moments, the best thing to do is to stop and soberly analyze what choices led us to this point.

Do we realize what is really behind these elections? As an example, let's analyze the choices of a person driven by vanity. In modern society, the desire for fame, honor and respect is considered the norm, and vanity is inherent in all of us to varying degrees. This is the desire to look better in your own eyes and in the eyes of those around you than you really are. We are pleased when we are praised, appreciated, and not scolded. Why is it so dangerous? And why should we beware of such a desirable and pleasant companion?

Vanity first seduces with respect, recognition and honor, and then completely blinds a person, dooming him to fight with even more formidable opponents - pride and its faithful army: disappointment, envy, resentment, anger, depression and loneliness. And having won, it takes away from us the most valuable thing - the meaning of life.

Psychology views the qualities of pride and arrogance as the predominance of the so-called power motive in a person’s aspirations. According to A. Adler, superiority over others, as a life goal, is destructive if it forces a person, struggling to achieve it, to resort to selfish behavior. According to the observations of a psychologist, such aspiration is typical of people with poorly developed sense of community.

“In our life there are no other questions except the question of social position,” writes the psychologist. - Whether a person performs important work, whether he works on some invention, whether he is engaged in science, only that work that is useful for society will be valuable, good, and correct. In the way one person relates to others, in companionship, in friendship, in communication and in all the corresponding traits of character, virtues, love of truth, openness, interest in others, in his people, in humanity, the degree of his contact, his readiness for life in society."

An insufficiently developed sense of community gives rise to fear of solving life's problems and, as a result, flight to the “useless side of life.” At the same time, the so-called superiority complex, aimed not at serving the public good, but at establishing one’s greatness before others. Modern psychology warns that when a person begins to be guided not by the desire to benefit society and a sense of responsibility, but directs efforts to gain and retain power, then he poses a “threat to both the cause and the structure that he heads.”

To recognize vanity in ourselves, let's honestly answer the question - what motivates us in each specific situation - the desire to benefit people or make a good impression? Do these two motives conflict with each other? If we increasingly choose to sacrifice our own principles and goals for the sake of creating the appearance of a successful person, then where will this path ultimately lead us? Won't we lose our real selves - those who remain somewhere out there in our true heartfelt aspirations?

People with well developed sense of community demonstrate their superiority in a constructive direction. In this case, ambition serves as an auxiliary motivation and is subordinated to a more important spiritual inner goal. Such people can become real leaders who strive for the well-being of other people - they are self-confident and optimistic people, able to act quickly, easily establish contacts with people and have enough tact not to interfere with the consent of others. “A leader is a real person with courage and skill. It embodies what other people dream of.”

The goal of my work is to help people understand themselves, to reconcile their inner motives with their own spiritual essence. In this I will rely on information from Iissiidiology, which gives an understanding of the laws of the surrounding reality on a deeper level - understanding precisely from the point of view of humanity, altruism, deeply developed intelligence and inner intuition.

We are all explorers of the Universe

I think that the reason for the underdeveloped sense of community is a lack of understanding of the world around us and fear of it. This is where rejection, resentment, protest, alienation and closedness come from. Why is this happening? The more the world around us does not correspond to our inner ideas and spiritual aspirations, the less we want to have in common with it. Some people protest, some withdraw and withdraw into themselves. But is this reaction of aggression or self-defense actually effective?

The most attractive position, it seems to me, is the role of a researcher who, relying on the inner feeling of love inherent in our souls and a living intellect, strives first of all to understand this world.

So why are all people so different? Why is the world so alien to us, and the surrounding reality so far from ideal? I will formulate answers to these questions using the concepts that I gleaned from studying Iissiidiology. But I present them only to interest you in a deeper study of the source materials. Each of us lacks some specific information in order to deal with our own internal contradictions.

Each life form around us - be it a person, a star or an electron - belongs to a specific collective cosmic mind, which explores the surrounding reality with the help of its own forms of self-consciousness. Collective cosmic minds give their forms of self-awareness certain directions of development. The mineral, plant, and animal kingdoms each develop in their own direction, but despite these differences at a certain level, these directions merge into a single whole, where each brings its own valuable experience. For a single universe, each form of self-consciousness - be it a sea fish, a celestial body, a grain of sand on the seashore or a human form - is equally valuable for its individual life experience.

The criteria for the Human direction of development are states of highly intellectual Altruism and highly sensitive Intelligence. This is Intelligence and Love, aimed at selfless creative service for the benefit of the development and improvement of the entire universe, awareness of high responsibility not only for oneself, but also for the state of the world around us.

However, at this stage of evolution, humanity is at the so-called preparatory near-human stage of development and is only approaching its truly Human direction. Outwardly, people look human, but inside, everyone, driven by their inner aspirations, gains individual experience of interaction with other non-human directions. Hence, we notice in each other various tendencies that are unpleasant for our (human) system of perception, which are more characteristic of the animal world, or generally cannot fit into our self-awareness. The meaning of such an exchange with tendencies alien to the Human direction is to build the necessary energy-informational relationships with other directions and, gradually improving, to become more and more confirmed in the correctness of the choice of the Human path.

However, such a variety of directions gives rise to many internal and external conflicts. Sometimes it can be very difficult to accept the world in all its diversity of manifestations; some features of the people around us seem incomprehensible and unpleasant. Many of our own internal states seem unclear. Among such diversity, we try to find something important in this world, but, not having the necessary information, we often act blindly and walk in circles.

Multilevel structure of Self-Consciousness

The multi-level structure of self-awareness allows us to gain a variety of experiences. Several levels of self-awareness can be active in a person at once in different percentages, depending on the activity of his interests and mental-sensory realizations.

At the level collective unconscious a person is driven by an unconscious desire to satisfy instincts, desires and passions. Many states at this level seem completely incomprehensible to us: various fears, unconscious sensations, sensual sexual experiences. Staying at this level, people become fixated on selfishness, aggression and various negativisms.

At the level lower “personal” self-awareness we deeply and persistently identify ourselves with our form of manifestation and are powerfully attached to the forms of all surrounding objects and phenomena. At the same time, we become hostages of limited systems of perception of our forms and are almost completely cut off from intuitive access to information of the Human direction of development. We do not feel our unity with the world around us, we have only very primitive ideas about ourselves and the universe, and often do not understand how to guide our life choices. At this level, we often contrast ourselves with our environment and think in dual categories: bad - good, yes - no, satisfies - does not satisfy, agree - disagree. At this level of self-awareness, we are not able to process large amounts of information in order to provide the perceptual system with deeper and more multifaceted assessments, so only the most contrasting and easily accessible experiences are produced, and the very essence of what is happening is often missed.

By acquiring life experience, and with it deeper ideas about ourselves and the surrounding reality, we activate our perception of higher levels of “personal” self-awareness. In life, this manifests itself as the ability to intuitively feel more correct decisions, evaluate current events more objectively, and analyze many cause-and-effect relationships between our actions and life circumstances. We begin to evaluate what is happening not from the point of view of satisfying momentary selfish interests, but taking into account long-term prospects and goals. The experience we gradually gain orients us towards collective creativity, altruism and intellectual development. People at this level devote themselves to family, friendship, love, charity, philosophy, esotericism, art, religion, and mental activity. Such people's reactions to life's adversities become more balanced, and the people themselves are already sufficiently devoid of selfish manifestations.

This multi-level self-awareness is characteristic of every person. It underlies the diversity of our configuration and affects the creative potential of each individual. By exhibiting certain tendencies, we most often unconsciously shift from one level to another. If at the levels of “personal” self-awareness a person strives to have more, then the next level assumes a completely different role - the desire to always be most useful to people.

At the level collective subconscious a person ceases to separate himself and the world around him, he perceives everything around him as a single whole. Therefore, at this level, a person tries with all his might to bring good to the world around him. Developing in himself the signs of highly intellectual Altruism and highly sensitive Intelligence, a person gradually becomes more active at the levels lower collective subconscious. At this level, information is revealed about the simultaneous implementation of countless own forms in life development scenarios. A person gets the opportunity to choose from this variety the highest quality options for further development that best suit his ideas.

At the same time, many new amino acids are activated in DNA and a powerful restructuring of many biological systems of the body occurs. Gradually, a person is reprojected into configurations of “bioplasmic” forms, acquiring the abilities of telepathy, teleportation, telekinesis, clairvoyance, as well as many other methods of creative realization. A person can perceive an infinite variety of “personalities” and, based on their experience, choose the highest quality development options.

Development does not stop at this stage, but continues further. Another thousand, or even millions, of years will pass, and the boundaries of his self-awareness will expand even wider. Man will go to levels higher collective subconscious, reprojecting into “plasma” forms. At this level, the idea of ​​the “human form” that is familiar to us is already lost. One acquires the ability to simultaneously perceive and associate “oneself” no longer with individual “personalities,” but with a huge number of one’s own different-quality forms of expression, reminiscent of entire different-quality varieties of human realities.

Conscious Altruism and Intelligence in our lives

In order to consciously redirect your life in the right direction, it is important to understand that you need to start work not by achieving the necessary conditions for this, but by thoroughly correcting your own ideas, clearly defining your internal principles and positions, and setting your main priorities. That is, from the formation of one’s psychospiritual essence. The circumstances of our life are a continuation of the quality of our own psycho-emotional states, principles, ideas, creative activity and spiritual maturity, including all our desires, and those unsightly things that we carefully hide from others and ourselves.

When starting to work on yourself, you should first of all understand that this process is not as fast and simple as we would like. First, try to analyze your life from the perspective of human development criteria - altruism and intelligence. Perhaps you are focused mainly on your own well-being in your creative life? A gradual transition beyond personal egoism begins with including the well-being of other people in the sphere of one’s interests.

Caring and helping other people also implies more responsibility, not only for our thoughts and states in front of ourselves, but also for how our choices affect the people around us. What if our help, aimed at protecting a person from troubles, only harms his development, preventing him from learning to independently overcome the stresses of life?

Without the necessary knowledge about the surrounding reality, developed intuition and intelligence, it is difficult to understand how to correctly apply the qualities of Altruism in life. Therefore, a faithful assistant on this path is the information from the series of books of Iissiidiology, which reveals the deepest secrets of the relationship between man and the Universe, forming the necessary information basis in order to build the necessary cause-and-effect relationships between the events of our lives, activates intuitive levels and teaches us to follow in life choices the main criteria of the Human path of development.

Working on yourself alone, without like-minded people, the feeling of a friendly shoulder and the opportunity to participate in joint creativity is a difficult task. Therefore, now Centers of Intelligence and Altruism are being created around the idea of ​​uniting people for their development in the Human direction. Anyone who wants to contribute to our common future based on the ideas and principles described in Iissiidiology can take part in this grandiose collective intellectual and altruistic creativity.

Life is a path of endless self-development

Due to its wave nature, DNA is capable of interacting at the quantum level with the DNA of all other organisms. Therefore, each of us at the subconscious-unconscious level of perception, depending on the activity of the levels of self-consciousness, is an involuntary “observer” and participant in the energy-information exchange that occurs every moment in the world around us. Our thoughts and feelings are instantly transmitted to resonantly corresponding sections of the DNA of all other people, becoming part of their experience, influencing their choices, tendencies, and abilities. Therefore, the importance of truly altruistic and selfless thoughts, feelings and actions is truly great.

It is important to learn to accept yourself with love and gratitude as a part of the universe - to accept everything that happens in life without claims, insults, irritations and reproaches. Everything that happens to us and around us is extremely fair and useful for our self-knowledge, because that our life becomes only what we ourselves choose in accordance with the achieved level of self-perception. Each of our choices reflects only the degree of our self-awareness at each moment of our existence. And what at the moment may be perceived as a negative and unpleasant circumstance, in a future more objective understanding may reveal a deeper meaning and be perceived completely differently. Try to remember, for sure, in your life there was such a rethinking when, after some time, an event that at first seemed unfavorable, painful or even terrible, began to be perceived as good.

As we deepen our understanding of life, we gradually learn to perceive it as a reflection of ourselves. Often in other people we do not accept precisely those qualities that we cannot accept in ourselves, and life simply shows this to us through other people. If we do not realize our inner potential for the common good, we also do not notice this in the people around us, and they also begin to seem inactive to us. Therefore, no matter what the surrounding reality may seem to us, it is very important to learn to track our own manifestations in it and change ourselves, perceiving everything that happens as an absolute benefit for our development. Having ceased to be angry at life circumstances that seem unfair to us, we will each time begin to trace the relationships between life events and our own internal state, thoughts and actions. This will help you to be in peace, harmony and love for the world around you.

The energy of gratitude makes it easier to learn the lessons of life: to be grateful for everything that happens to us, for the day we lived and the lessons that it brought us; for a new day and the new experience it will give; for all the pleasant and, most importantly, for all the unpleasant moments in our lives. After all, it is from unpleasant situations that we learn, and it is they that give us the opportunity to develop.

Conclusion

Let's think again - who are we and what are we striving for in this life? Life doesn't take into account how good or bad we are in the eyes of society. All that matters to her is what constitutes our inner essence, which cannot be hidden from life under any masks. And it may well happen that one day we realize that we were unconsciously moving in the wrong direction.

We are all researchers. And everyone, on their journey, accumulates a certain experience of existence in the form of more and more new energy-informational relationships with each other and with other forms of the surrounding reality. Thus, gradually complicating and deepening our information content, with each successfully completed stage we move to the next level of self-awareness. And each level has its own evolutionary tasks and potential opportunities. Thus, gradually each form of self-consciousness approaches an increasingly perfect image of itself.

Iissiidiology describes the fastest and most effective way to pass near-human stage of development: be guided in your choices by criteria Human direction- highly intellectual Altruism and highly sensitive Intelligence. The experience we gradually gain will allow us to implement ourselves more and more often. higher levels of “personal” self-awareness. We will learn to intuitively feel better decisions, objectively assess current events and consciously make choices that lead to better ourselves and the future we have always dreamed of. By realizing ourselves in collective creativity for the benefit of all humanity, we will discover truly limitless creative possibilities that will take us to the level of the collective subconscious, where we will realize ourselves in harmonious unity with the world around us.

I understand that the path of spiritual self-improvement is not the easiest path, and it requires a lot of patience and determination, but I believe with all my heart that the path of selfless service to all people and the universe leads to the interesting, rich and happy life that I have always dreamed of. In this I am greatly helped by knowledge of Iissiidiology, communication with like-minded people, and the experience of a new way of life that I get in the Crimean Aifaar - at the Center for Intellectual-Altruistic Development.

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